It seems like you have some social anxiety, self-doubt, or hesitation.
“I worry about what other people think of me.”
“I don’t get close enough.”
“I don’t talk enough.”
You’re quiet. You’re more of a wallflower. You may have great ideas, but don’t share them boldly in meetings. You don’t reach out to people you’re easily attracted to. Instead, you say, “Okay, I’ll tell my friend to tell her friend…” It goes like this:
You are cautious, afraid of rejection, afraid of risk, afraid of failure. If you want to turn this into a complete transformation, where are you?
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Bold, expressive, and outgoing
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People notice you and say, “Whoa, who’s that?”
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Not just normal, but beyond normal—standing out, respected, admired
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A leader, someone people seek out
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Having lots of options in your love life
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Thriving in your career and earning more than you ever thought possible
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Contributing more than you ever thought possible
That is a total transformation. Are you interested in that?
A Different Approach to Social Anxiety
Now, that’s very different than what a lot of people look at in mental health. Many say:
“You have to manage your social anxiety, manage your symptoms. Let’s take a lot of medications and try to get by because you’re broken inside. You have a diagnosis. There’s something wrong with you.”
This is the message you may have learned or received. But I have a very different message:
No. You can radically transform this.
The First Question: Do You Want That?
If you don’t want this, why are you here? Why are you watching this video? What is this all about, right?
So, I’m assuming you want this.
The Second Question: Do You Want to Know How?
There is an even bigger question behind this:
Are you willing?
Because if you are willing, you can have that transformation.
What Does “Willing” Mean?
Are you willing to do what it takes? Are you willing to face everything that comes your way?
Because here’s the thing:
That whole shell of social anxiety is designed to protect you from putting yourself out into life.
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“Oh, they’re not going to like me!” → So you don’t interact.
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“Oh, they’re not going to hire me!” → So you don’t apply.
But to create the transformation you want, you must be willing to experience what you’ve been avoiding.
So, yeah—put yourself out there!
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Be willing to experience rejection from some people.
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Be willing to hear “no.”
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Be willing to fail.
That doesn’t mean everyone will reject you.
That’s the BS story in your mind:
“No one could ever love me!”
“No one’s going to be with me!”
If you’re stuck in that belief, you’ve got to get my free video series:
“Five Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence.”
It’s free—just click below or go to DrAziz.com.
This guides you step by step on how to:
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Take control of that negative voice in your head
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Challenge and defy the voice that says, “You can’t do it!”
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Realize that not everyone will reject you, but some people will.
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Not everyone will dislike you, but some people will.
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Not everyone will think your idea is stupid, but someone might.
If You Avoid Discomfort, You Avoid Growth
If you’re unwilling to be disliked, rejected, or judged—
You will not experience a radical transformation.
Instead, you’ll stay in your story:
“I would have done it, but they didn’t like me.”
“It’s not possible.”
“There’s something wrong with me.”
You could stay in that mindset until the day you die.
Many people do.
But if you’re still here, reading this, I bet you want more.
This Is Bigger Than Just You
I believe you’re here for something more, not just for yourself.
Sure, it’s amazing to feel:
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Free
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Confident
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Bold
But when you become your most confident self, it benefits everyone around you:
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Your family
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Your friends
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Your future partner
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Your future kids
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Your career
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Your entire life
Everything enhances when you fully show up.
The Big Question: Are You Willing?
Are you willing to experience rejection?
Are you willing to experience failure?
This isn’t just something you acknowledge intellectually.
You must show it:
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Through your behavior
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Through your heart
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Through getting messy
Growth Is Messy—And That’s Okay
I run a year-long mastermind program called:
🔥 The Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind Program 🔥
At the start, I tell everyone:
“Get ready to be messy!”
Because growth is messy:
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You’ll make mistakes.
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You’ll say things and later think, “Ugh, why did I say that?”
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You’ll approach someone and fumble your words.
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You’ll speak up in a meeting and not sound polished.
But KEEP GOING.
Be Unstoppable
That’s why I give my members wristbands that say:
💪 “Unstoppable” 💪
Because if you are willing to do whatever it takes and you don’t stop—
You will become the most confident version of yourself.
